Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Wishful Wednesday- Where is my husband?

If I could have one wish today it wouldn't be hard for me to decide.  There are a lot of things I want.  I want to win the $190 million Power Ball drawing tonight, but money is sometimes too over-rated.  I want to have my dream body, but we don't live in la-la land and I know that if I ever got lazy or ate bad I would lose it.  Besides I don't hate how I look and after almost 30 years of getting used to it, I am who I am.  I want to travel to some tropical island and lay on the beach and let the waves wash my worries away, but that only lasts for that moment and eventually I'd have to come back to the real world.

If I had one wish today, it would be to find my husband.  I know he is out there.  I know one day I will get married because I am just that kind of girl.  And I have faith that my husband is out there just wandering around life and waiting to bump in to me.  But for some reason we just can't seem to find each other!

So who is this mystery man?

I don't know what he looks like.  If I did it would probably be a lot easier to find him!  All I know is that I will be physically attracted to him and through my eyes he will be the most adorable/HOT (depending on the situation) thing ever!

He will have a job.  He may not love his job, but he will have ambition.  He will know that working hard is a part of life and he will at least have the desire to find something that he enjoys and work hard at it.

He will be honest.  He will tell me everything and live an honest, authentic life.

He will keep me cracking up.  I love to laugh and he will love making me smile and laugh.

He'll be goofy with me.  He'll play and be silly and love having random adventures with me.

He'll be a man.  He'll know when to take charge and be a leader.  He will stand up for what he believes in and he'll take care of his family and his home.

He'll be a deep thinker.  He will think about things like the meaning of life and have opinions and thoughts on current events.  And hopefully he'll like to read a book every once in a while.

He'll love my pets.  He will be as head over heels for Cam as I am.

He'll like music.  I don't care too much what kind, but he'll know the value of a good song.  I hope we'll be able to sing along together when a great song comes on the radio.  (and he won't mind my bad singing!)

He'll like to travel.  He will like to see new places and experience new things.  He'll like being on or near water (the ocean, a lake or river, etc.) as much as I do.  I mean I do have a dream of living on a lake one day!

He'll be sweet.  He will surprise me by doing sweet things for me.  He'll make my heart melt with the sweet things he says to me every once in a while- I mean he can't be mushy gushy all the time, but he will know how and when to be sweet.  Maybe he'll even write me love letters!

He'll give good hugs.

He'll be considerate.  He will be considerate of my feelings and what I want and need from him.  He'll be considerate of others and treat people with respect.

He'll know and love God.  Jesus is his savior.

He'll have a passion.  He'll have something that makes his eyes light up and something that he loves.

He will get along with my friends.  My friends are an important part of my life and he will recognize that and he will make an effort to get to know them and become a part of our group.

He'll never break my heart.  He may hurt me at times.  I mean it's almost impossible to never hurt or let down the people you love, but he will protect my heart.  He'll love me too much to ever do anything to break it.

So yeah, if you know this guy and he is still single and looking for me, let me know.  If not, keep your eyes out for him and let me know if you spot him because I am ready.  I'm ready to give him my heart.  I'm ready to love him and build my life with him.  I'm sick of dating and over being single.  I've had years to enjoy the single life and date around.  I'm tired of letting people in my life, becoming best friends with them and then having to say goodbye.  A few years ago, I would have never said this.  I would have been embarrassed to even admit that I want this.  I wasn't ready to commit.  I was still working on me.  And I still am, but now I am ready to commit to working on us.  I'm ready to find someone who isn't perfect, but love them for who they are and someone who will love me for me and understand that we will always be a work in progress.


Akirah said...

Sigh. If I find him, I'll ask him if he has a brother for you. Because that's exactly what I want too.

Sam said...

Aw, I love this post. I was actually planning on doing a similar post soon. I will be on the lookout for your man! :)

Anonymous said...

Awww... Such a good post. I love your blog and always love to read your new posts! :)

Amber @ A Little Pink in the Cornfields said...

You WILL find him - you will find each other. I love that you have such faith in that. It keeps my faith in finding the same thing strong!
Just keep reminding yourself that good things comes to those who wait. All the "frogs" before are just preparing you for something GREATER! I truly belive this for the both of us!

citygal said...

I hear ya! I'm tired of looking most days. I want my future husband to find me!

woodlandsblonde said...

I think we're both looking for a similar guy :) hehe.

It sounds like this man could be found at church! What I've realized is that a lot of men that claim to have a strong faith...don't. Someone that goes to church, reflects on his life and welcomes the teachings is someone that is legit!

Take your time :) I know you believe in God...just have faith that he will bless you with a healthy relationship.

Brunch at Saks said...

Just found your blog and wanted to say hi. Love this post- I just know that you WILL find him! Hope you have a great weekend xoxo