tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821080959374336987.post1067932131750869384..comments2023-09-10T11:36:53.175-04:00Comments on 30 Before 30 List: The Bachelor episode that made me want to punch someone in the faceSuzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08843610173035306667noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821080959374336987.post-61363804794188544782013-02-17T17:14:52.480-05:002013-02-17T17:14:52.480-05:00I was in complete and utter shock when those words...I was in complete and utter shock when those words left Tierra's mouth. What does it matter how old you are when you get married/settle down?? She's 24 (same age as me), but she is most definitely NOT mature enough to get married. Her attitude is just scary...and crazy. Plus, their isn't a time limit on when you should get married!! I wanted to slap her too!!<br /><br />Your man is out there, I promise...and he'll come when you least expect it :). Praying for you!!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04685973109740930026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821080959374336987.post-16925184610100372882013-02-12T22:41:08.618-05:002013-02-12T22:41:08.618-05:00I couldn't believe when Tierra said that eithe...I couldn't believe when Tierra said that either. It just came off as so immature an uninformed. While part of me would love to say I hope she's still single at 32, and while I definitely thought it at times, I can at least admit fighting fire with fire isn't always the right approach. But still, in general people don't choose to be single, and there are a lot out there that still are at 32. And in no way does that means there's something wrong with them as she said.Shoshanahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15707241263291051104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821080959374336987.post-61370075040786303502013-02-12T18:12:23.571-05:002013-02-12T18:12:23.571-05:00First and foremost, Tiera SUCKS. I'd LOVE it i...First and foremost, Tiera SUCKS. I'd LOVE it if she doesn't show up to the reunion. I have watched many Bachelor/Bachelorette Seasons, and rarely watch that reunion show. Doe people really not show? That would really be amazing. :) <br /><br />I think it's important to not look at it like,"OMG I'm 32 and I'm not married," but to look at how many things that you have accomplished by this point in your life. There's much more to life than being married and have children. <br /><br />So many people that I went to high school with have been married for over 10 years at this point in their life. That's insane to really think about. BUT, I mean regardless of how many of them were married a few years into their 20s, more of them are divorced and even more of them are unhappy with their life. Settling down doesn't mean settling. When you find the right person, you'll know. All of the being scared/not putting yourself out there, etc. won't matter. You'll meet the person that you're intended to be with in the most unexpected situations. :) Tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11666099221140050656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7821080959374336987.post-13553345202494705912013-02-11T23:35:30.735-05:002013-02-11T23:35:30.735-05:00I can't say that I know what it's like to ...I can't say that I know what it's like to be in your position, but I can say that I have an older sister your age who also isn't married as yet. From someone on the outside looking in I'll tell you this, my sister inspires me. I don't see her as someone who hasn't settled down. I don't see her as a 32 year old who hasn't done what she was supposed to do. I see her as someone who was handed LIFE, took it, and ran with it. My sister reads your blog, she did her own 30 Before 30 List as inspired by you, and now I read both of your blogs. I don't think to myself....hey, when I'm 32 I need to be married with kids. I think hey, when I'm 32 I'll be happy if I accomplish HALF of what she has. I know we have our tough nights, we get emotional, we let the devil kick us from behind the knee, but just know that our lives take their own paths for reasons not yet understood. Trust God, ALWAYS.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02141859613050292512noreply@blogger.com